It’s rather delayed (in fact, we’re nearly at the end of January), but it’s never too late to make a few resolutions!
Entering into 2017 was lovely. I spent it with some of my best friends eating loads of cheese and drinking all the champagne… always a good start. After midnight, we all sat round and decided to write down our resolutions and then share them with each-other. It was really motivating to see what others were going to try and be pro-active about and what they were going to make more time for in the year ahead.
I thought I’d share the ones that I made because not only is it a useful thing for me to be able to look back on, but it might motivate you as well!
1. Stop being so hard on yourself!
This is something that I’m really awful at doing. I over-think and over-analyse a lot of aspects of myself, which can mean that sometimes it really gets me down. Being in my third year at Uni, I knew it would be difficult and so before I had even started to get stuck in, I had that voice in the back of my head telling me to try harder and what I was doing wasn’t good enough. We’re told throughout our academic lives that we need to be the best and compete with loads of other people for what we want; whether that’s a job, a place at university or anything else we’re passionate about. It’s amazing to try your best, but it’s also vital to remember that you’re human and you’ll be faced with things that you find a bit difficult. Finding things difficult is NORMAL, it doesn’t take away from your intelligence or your worth so give yourself some credit.
2. Read more!
In this case, I don’t mean Uni readings… although, I guess that’s important too; I’m however referring to more recreational reading and reading for fun. I absolutely love the feeling of finding a book that you have to tear yourself away from. I’ve always loved reading and would make sure that I made time for taking that down time and getting stuck in. As of recent, I have definitely been slacking on that and so I’m going to invest some more time into reading books that I really enjoy.
3. Strong, not skinny
Over Summer 2016, I joined a gym at home and was absolutely loving the routine and the aspect of challenging myself. I liked to see the progress, not only in terms of my body changing but also how it mentally benefited me. Taking the time out of the day to just go to the gym, have my music on and focus on myself for an hour or so was really refreshing. I also started to become more familiar with equipment other than the treadmill – although it took time for me to pluck up the courage and just get stuck in with it. When I first walked in and saw all of the machines I felt so overwhelmed… but it’s okay to ask what’s what because everyone there has had that feeling before; ‘what the hell does that do?!’. Keeping the gym up was something I doubted when I came back to Uni, but I have joined a gym and have been loving it – so I need to keep this up!
4. Save money but don’t neglect yourself
This is a big one for me. I feel as if I have really up and down relationship with saving money. In Summer, I had two jobs and was saving the money really well, because I needed it for a trip to Canada. I would tell myself that I could treat myself whilst I was there and so to step back from the make-up and clothes. I was really happy because I managed, and I didn’t go mental buying everything in sight – this means it is possible. Despite this, I’m still a firm of believer of being able to treat yourself and this doesn’t mean splashing the cash on something massive, but instead allowing yourself some little treats such as a nice bath bomb from Lush when you’re feeling a bit down or going to eat at your favorite restaurant. Be mindful of money but don’t disregard the little things in life that you enjoy.
5. Be more consistent with my blog posts
Easier said than done when I often feel as if I’m drowning in work but, like the ‘read more’ point, I want to do it because I enjoy it. I absolutely love writing and always have done but all that I was really writing before were essays and other assignments and I mean, they’re not that enjoyable to write because they are structured and are marked against a strict mark-scheme. I thought I’d start writing a blog because it allows for that creative output and I find nothing more enjoyable than jotting down all of the ideas that I have. I also love photography and the photo side of blogs is essentially what people look at first before they get down to reading a post and so I’d love to practice my photo taking and perfect the art of flat-lay. Anyway, I’m going to try my best to make more time for writing as life ain’t all about essays.
In 2016, I was lucky enough to be able to visit two countries that I’ve always wanted to – The USA and Canada. In April, I went and met my dad out in New-York and had the most amazing time (Travel: New York Part 1. & Travel: New York Part 2.). I would love to go back some time in the near future because it’s such a beautiful, vibrant and lively city with so much more to experience. I went to Montreal in August and had the best time venturing around and meeting new people; it was so lovely to be shown around by someone who had experienced actually living in the city and by the end I really didn’t want to leave because I felt so at home. I’d love to see more of both of those countries, Inter-rail around Europe and also visit the beautiful white sand beaches of Bali, Thailand and Cambodia. We shall see.
So, these are the main things that I want to try and focus on and strive for in the new year. January is nearly at an end which is absolute madness and I end University in May so I’m praying it doesn’t go too fast! In the mean time, I’ve got lots of goals to focus on.
I’ve got to start off by saying that Estée LaLonde is one of my favourite bloggers, and has been since the ‘Essie button’ days. I first discovered her Youtube channel through her blog as I thought if I loved reading her posts, odds are I’m going to love her videos as well. I hate to ‘blow my own trumpet’, but I was right.
My favourite kind of videos are Vlogs, I guess that’s just the nosey gal inside of me really showing. Estée’s vlogs on her channel Everyday Esteé and I love seeing what she gets up to in London especially with her amazingly beautiful greyhound, Reggie.
When I heard that Estée was going to be releasing a book I was so excited! I love reading lifestyle and beauty books but almost felt like Bloom would be even more interesting because obviously I am familiar with the content that she produces and really love her style. I can hands up say that I finished this on Christmas day, which is when I received the book as a gift. The book covers so many areas such as beauty, food and interiors, but the bit I loved the most was the part where Estée wrote about her personal experiences and life in general. It just felt so honest and I couldn’t help but become enthralled within her writing. There are so many positive messages about being more understanding and considerate of your own feelings and having more self-love, which are things I struggle with – as I know a lot of us do.
The amazing thing is that you’re able to overcome them, and I just really love how the way that Estée did that was by throwing herself in at the deep end and pursuing something that she really enjoyed. It’s hard to be brave and challenge yourself but it’s even harder to look back on things and regret that you never tried!
I absolutely loved Bloom and the message it puts across and would urge you to give it a read! It’s far more than a lifestyle book with the beautiful imagery and pretty coloured pages, it’s a really inspiring and fab read.
Well done Estée!
First of all, Happy New Year!
I hope that you all had a lovely Christmas break, and don’t have the January blues just yet.
I wanted to write a post about Kylie Cosmetics, as I received a couple of the lip-kits as Christmas gifts. I had been ooh-ing and ah-ing to whether I should just take the plunge and order a few colours, however, the shipping and potential customs lurking at the end, really put me off.
However, with Christmas nearing and KC offering 20% off everything on the website at the time, I may have dropped a few, not so subtle hints. And so we here we are! Firstly, I asked the person who kindly purchased them for me, about the delivery and customs when they ordered. The website was offering free international delivery (when ordering over $60) and of course there was the additional 20% off, which saved a pretty penny.
However, the order did have additional customs charges, which added £22 to the order and so this isn’t particularly ideal when you’re already paying quite a lot for the product itself. However, I’d just advise anyone that is making an order to be cautious and just know that you are more than likely going to get charged customs when they reach the UK.
I have the shades Pumpkin, Exposed and Merry (a limited edition Christmas shade). I have swatched them all, but I’ve only worn Exposed out and so, I’ll be doing a post about the quality and wear of the lip kits after I’ve given them all a go. From swatching them, they do have quite a strong sweet smell, and this reminds me of the Lime Crime Velvetines which also have the same, sickly scent. It’s not something I’m overly keen on but it doesn’t seem to linger once the product dries so that’s a plus.
I am a fan of the ‘lip kit’ idea, as in the liquid lipstick comes with the matching liner. When I swatched all of the colours, the liners were extremely creamy and reminded me of the Mac Pro-longwear pencils, which are a firm favourite of mine. As for the liquid lipsticks themselves, they are quite liquid-y… which sounds like the most stupid thing I could ever say. However, the Kat-Von-D Everlasting Liquid Lips have a sort of mousse-like texture, and so the change in consistency is something I’ll have to get used to.
I am looking forward to trialling all three shades and will update you on what I think of them!
Something that I really love about Leeds is that it literally has every shop that you could ever want. Topshop, Zara, Harvey Nichols etc… and even the Victoria Quarter (renamed ‘The posh bit’ by me and my mum), which has loads of higher end shops, where I’ve been tempted to blow my entire student loan in one go, but thankfully that hasn’t happened yet.
There is a new addition to the plethora of places to shop and that is in the form of Victoria Gate. Inside, there are lots of new, lovely shops including & Other Stories, COS, T2 and to add to the madness, a giant John Lewis (madness in a good way).
However, my favourite addition is the new Anthropologie store, literally every homeware lovers dream come true. Every single thing I am convinced that I need; whether it’s one of their gorgeous candles or if it’s a pretty ceramic kitchen utensil that you’d probably never have a use for, but still confidently place in your basket whilst convincing yourself that it’s essential.
It’s spread across two floors and doesn’t follow any particular order in terms of clothes on one floor and homeware another, it’s kind of all just mixed up nicely which makes it interesting when you’re wandering around.
It’s also a fab place to go and look for Christmas presents, and so what better time to go and have an explore than now!
I first came to Leeds back in 2014 when I started University and I can honestly say it took me no time at all to feel at home. It’s the perfect transition for me; coming from a small town, I’ve never felt overwhelmed, it’s a beautiful and vibrant city. I’m now in my third year and so I’ve had an opportunity to scope out places that I like to shop, eat and treat myself. As a result, I’ve decided to begin a blog series ‘The Leeds edit’ where I can tell you about my favourite places and where I would recommend to anybody that was thinking of visiting.
I’m going to kick off the series with one of the best places I’ve discovered (modest), Ragdoll Nails. It was about this time last year that I was swamped with work and felt like I needed a little pick-me-up and so I booked in with Laura to get a Shellac manicure. I’d never really had my nails done before and as mentioned in my Summer Nails post (where I also rave about Ragdoll…surprise surprise), I hate painting my nails myself and I can never file them equally. This is when my obsession for Shellac started. The polish lasts for so much longer than a standard one and they’re so low maintenance, which is ideal for me. Since coming here, I’ve left other salons and felt quite disappointed with the results, because I feel like the time and precision that Laura gives, just isn’t met. I believe that you get what you pay for; not only do the polishes last for ages, but there’s such a high level of perfection that’s given with every manicure I’ve had.
Laura runs an amazing Instagram page for Ragdoll packed with inspiration of different designs that are really on-trend and unique. I’ve never been to another salon and had such a wide choice of colours, designs and finishes. What I’d never seen before coming to Ragdoll was metallic foil, which is pressed onto the nail for a sort of gold-leaf effect, it’s beautiful, I’d definitely recommend visiting the website and viewing the gallery and treatment menu to get an idea of the colour/design possibilities. You also get a little ‘rewards’ card, so after receiving 7 treatments, you get 20% off your next! I’ve just filled mine so I’m looking forward to using my discount in the near future!
I would 100% recommend Ragdoll Nails for an amazing manicure and if I could insert the *hands up emoji* after everything I’ve written I would, and obviously the sassy painted nails emoji also.
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When people ask me what year I’m in at Uni, it’s still weird when I answer ‘third’. I mean, I don’t feel like a third year, I still don’t have a clue what I want to do after I finish my course and I still consult google for how to cook most things, but I guess that’s okay. I think the pressure of the word ‘dissertation’ can sometimes get into my head, but it’s just a matter of telling myself not to worry and that everyone works at different paces.
Comparison is something that all of us do and I’m terrible for it, but it’s okay not to know what you’re doing next and it’s normal to get stressed. What I do know is that I’ve met some amazing people and for my third year I should embrace that and not let the workload drown that out.
There will be tears along the way but at the end I’ll have a dissertation that I wrote (even though I’ll probably never want to set eyes on it again and it’s only appearance will be when my mum drags it out to show family when they come round).
But nevertheless, here’s to third year.